Your Neighbors Are Swingers
A cheeky deep dive into the secret lives of your neighbors. In each episode of Your Neighbors Are Swingers, hosts Kate and Doug unpack the unexpected, hilarious, and often sexy secrets hiding behind picket fences and HOA rules. Kate and Doug share their stories and are entertained by guests from every corner of the lifestyle who join us to share theirs. Grab a drink, get comfy, and come discover what really happens when the curtains are drawn and the red lights are on.
A cheeky deep dive into the secret lives of your neighbors. In each episode of Your Neighbors Are Swingers, hosts Kate and Doug unpack the unexpected, hilarious, and often sexy secrets hiding behind picket fences and HOA rules. Kate and Doug share their stories and are entertained by guests from every corner of the lifestyle who join us to share theirs. Grab a drink, get comfy, and come discover what really happens when the curtains are drawn and the red lights are on.
Episodes

Jul 26, 2026
New-ish Swingers Rob and Leigh-Ann
Jul 26, 2026
Jul 26, 2026
1hr 10 min
Your neighbors Kate and Doug are joined by their friends and new-ish swingers Rob and Leagh-Ann, who have been in the lifestyle for about a year and a half and are quickly learning and evolving their dynamic as they go. Rob and Leigh-Ann share some of their experiences thus far, where they see themselves going, and what got them into the lifestyle in the first place.

Jul 15, 2026
Club Sapphire Westport Takeover Recap
Jul 15, 2026
Jul 15, 2026
39 min
Your neighbors Kate and Doug recently joined 200+ other fun people from Seattle's Club Sapphire at the club's hotel takeover weekend in Westport, Washington. Join them here as they recount the weekend's activities, including it being Kate's turn to watch (for a change), connecting with cool people from around the Pacific Northwest, and Kate reminding Doug that sometimes he needs to use towels! They were also freshly back from their trip to New Orleans for Naughty in New Orleans, so they tease some of thing things they will discuss in that upcoming recap.

Jun 29, 2026
Club Sapphire Owners Ruby & Woody
Jun 29, 2026
Jun 29, 2026
1hr 4 min
Your neighbors Kate and Doug welcome Ruby and Woody, owner of Seattle's best lifestyle club, to the pod! They share with us the ins and outs (get it?) of running a premiere lifestyle club, how they got into the business, and how they set the awesome vibe at Sapphire. Part history lesson, part tour of the club, and all fun, Woody and Ruby are the real deal! Your neighbors also explain their 2+ month hiatus and tee up some future episodes.

Apr 26, 2026
Sexual Bucket Lists Part 2
Apr 26, 2026
Apr 26, 2026
1hr 2 min
Your neighbors Kate and Doug keep going with the bucket list theme, diving a bit more into some of the things they have not yet done but might like to... candle wax and remote-control vibrators, anyone? Also, friend of the show 'Slappy' Jay stops by to share about his very good Friday experience as well as his thoughts on just how fruit roll ups can enhance your sex life!
Your neighbors also share about one of their new favorite people to learn from, Susan Bratton. Her website can be found here: Be A Better Lover And Learn Sexual Health | Personal Life Media

Apr 9, 2026
Sexual Bucket Lists Part 1
Apr 9, 2026
Apr 9, 2026
50 min
Your neighbors explore a rather robust sexual bucket list they found online and discovered that, yeah... they've been at this lifestyle thing a while. Relive some stories with them as they talk about the beach, boats, and blindfolds! They also recap a recent threesome encounter (times two) with Kate's out-of-town friend; as well as a recent Kate-Doug-only hotel getaway.
Click here to access the bucket list they used for this episode: The Ultimate Sexual Bucket List: 75 Sex Acts to Try Before You Die

Mar 4, 2026
Mar 4, 2026
1hr 7 min
Your neighbors have been at this lifestyle stuff for a few years now and have picked up some wisdom along the way. In this episode, Kate and Doug share some of their learnings and stories that have brought them to where they are now, and they share some things they wish they would have realized 20 years ago! From getting into the practice of their 'pregame huddle', to whiskey dick, banana daiquiris, and learning about compersion, they share the good, the bad, and the banana. They also share a recent experience they had on a medicinal journey, and Doug is clearly still buzzing from that! You can find out more about it at:
kulandira.com

Feb 6, 2026
Reviewing Some Lifestyle Clubs
Feb 6, 2026
Feb 6, 2026
34 min
Join Your Neighbors as they review some of their favorite, and not-so-favorite, lifestyle clubs they have been to in the United States and Canada. Kate discusses how she likes a quiet, intimate environment where she can truly connect with fellow lifestyle folks on a deeper level... yeah right! They also recap a recent fetish rave they attended where Kate had Doug on a short leash... quite literally!

Jan 23, 2026
Support Your Local Sex Shop!
Jan 23, 2026
Jan 23, 2026
44 min
Your Neighbors are joined by Jenn Mason, sexologist, sex educator, and owner of WinkWink Boutique: a not creepy, woman-owned sex shop in Bellingham, Washington. Jenn joins us to discuss her background, how and why she got into the sex shop business, and how she pays it forward through education and consulting.
You can check out WinkWink Boutique (they deliver, and Valentine's Day is coming up!) here: winkwinkboutique.com
You can also checkout some of Jenn's writing at her Substack page here.






