Your Neighbors Are Swingers
A cheeky deep dive into the secret lives of your neighbors. In each episode of Your Neighbors Are Swingers, hosts Kate and Doug unpack the unexpected, hilarious, and often sexy secrets hiding behind picket fences and HOA rules. Kate and Doug share their stories and are entertained by guests from every corner of the lifestyle who join us to share theirs. Grab a drink, get comfy, and come discover what really happens when the curtains are drawn and the red lights are on.
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Episodes
Wednesday Mar 04, 2026
Wednesday Mar 04, 2026
Your neighbors have been at this lifestyle stuff for a few years now and have picked up some wisdom along the way. In this episode, Kate and Doug share some of their learnings and stories that have brought them to where they are now, and they share some things they wish they would have realized 20 years ago! From getting into the practice of their 'pregame huddle', to whiskey dick, banana daiquiris, and learning about compersion, they share the good, the bad, and the banana. They also share a recent experience they had on a medicinal journey, and Doug is clearly still buzzing from that! You can find out more about it at:
kulandira.com
Friday Feb 06, 2026
Friday Feb 06, 2026
Join Your Neighbors as they review some of their favorite, and not-so-favorite, lifestyle clubs they have been to in the United States and Canada. Kate discusses how she likes a quiet, intimate environment where she can truly connect with fellow lifestyle folks on a deeper level... yeah right! They also recap a recent fetish rave they attended where Kate had Doug on a short leash... quite literally!
Friday Jan 23, 2026
Friday Jan 23, 2026
Your Neighbors are joined by Jenn Mason, sexologist, sex educator, and owner of WinkWink Boutique: a not creepy, woman-owned sex shop in Bellingham, Washington. Jenn joins us to discuss her background, how and why she got into the sex shop business, and how she pays it forward through education and consulting.
You can check out WinkWink Boutique (they deliver, and Valentine's Day is coming up!) here: winkwinkboutique.com
You can also checkout some of Jenn's writing at her Substack page here.
Tuesday Jan 06, 2026
Tuesday Jan 06, 2026
Your neighbors are excited to share their conversation with their friends Blondie and J, a gentle and progressive cuckold couple from the great white north of Canada! Kate and Doug met them at a Splash Mocha event and were instantly attracted to their vibe, and they have since attended some of their events. Blondie and J share their origin story, dynamic, forays into content creation, and give a preview for the upcoming Blondie's Bang Bus Tour... you won't want to miss it!
To learn more about Blondie and J you can check out:
Blondie's FetLife Account
Blondie's X Account
Blondie's OnlyFans Account
J's X Account
J's OnlyFans Account
Wednesday Dec 24, 2025
Wednesday Dec 24, 2025
Travel concierge and event producer Ying Ying Lee joins your neighbors to discuss the details behind putting on an event like the Whistle Lifestyle Takeover (see episode 11 for a recap of that amazing event)! Ying Ying shares with us her backstory, how she plans events, and why inclusivity is key. Doug also tries to steal her job, but it sounds like a lot of work...
If you're interested to learn more about some of the events and takeovers SOP does, check out swingeropenpoly.com now!
Saturday Dec 13, 2025
Saturday Dec 13, 2025
Your neighbors are back from their first Whistler Lifestyle Takeover event and eager to share their stories, including electroshock therapy for Kate, hot tub hookups, and some very new territory for Doug!
Sunday Nov 23, 2025
Sunday Nov 23, 2025
Kate and Doug reconnect with a friend they met at Splash Mocha this past summer. Q is the owner and founder of Young Swinger Lifestyle out of North Carolina, and he joins the podcast to share a bit about himself and what he is trying to build with YSL. They also reminisce about some of the fun they had at Splash Mocha, and it seems like Kate is signing up for more!
Some links to a few of the things discussed:
Q's Instagram: sylaire.ysl
Q's Fetlife profile: Q_YSL
Rosebuds Social
Xpressed Desire
House of Harris
NitesXTheRodeo LLC
Monday Nov 03, 2025
Monday Nov 03, 2025
Your neighbors Kate and Doug are lounging in Cabo San Lucas and have some fun perusing the internet for some stories about swinging and the lifestyle. Everything from how to tell if your neighbors are swingers (spoiler alert: they are) to sex festivals and mistaken swinger identity! They also tell a couple of quick stories about some of the 'fun' they've been having while in Cabo.